Thursday, March 06, 2008

The One Inspired By A Conversation With My Ex

(*With permission from my beloved ex, whom I promise to leave "thee name out". I love you, babe! LoL...)

I still do keep in touch with my ex. We still meet up form time to time for a meal, or two. He still call, we still talk. We're still friends. Then today, something happened.

Originally calling me out and asking me for dinner, we ended up having a more than 90-minute chat on the phone about, get this, sexual fantasies. We've been together. We knew each other even before we got together. And I always thought I knew everything there is to know about him. But I have never heard this from him when we were together! (You have no idea how uncomfortable I was to hear all that coming from someone I used to date. It's dead weird!)

(Since I promise him I will not disclose his fantasies here, let's cut straight to the gist of it.)

The not-so comfortable conversation really got me to think about that very first sexual fantasy we used have when we were kids. Like, what was the first ever "dirty" thought that came into our then-innocent mind, before it was plague with all the crudeness of the world? Who was our first crush back then?

I admitted straight out to my ex that I was NEVER innocent. Even my recollection of my earliest childhood pre-porn fantasy involves people doing very porn-like things to one another, which I never knew possible (then). LOL...

My ex has this theory that "human beings are sexual", and we are both liberal and 'old enough' to talk about all these. The question now is, how comfortable are you in sharing your bedroom fantasies with your friends? So here's what I'll do:

I'll do a post on MY sexual fantasy, when I was a kid, and share it with the world, if I get more than 4 replies to this post telling me about their fantasy. Good? You can go annonymous if you wanted to, I just need 3 replies.

Do think try and think back, see if you can remember what's your earliest childhood sexual fantasy? And who's your first crush?

Once I get those 4 replies, I'll have my post up! ;)

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